How to develop your self my opinion about this is..
- First think who you are and why.
- Measurement your good and bad habits.
- Always stay away From negativities and negative vibes and stay positive.
After getting answers of these questions human can get solution about their self development.
The answer of the first point is very clear we are human being and we are on Earth just for testing by Allah. Our duty on Earth is worship him. But question is how could we complete our task we are daughter/son, mother/father, sisters/brother and so many linking relations are there and we are knotting in the chains of responsibilities. As a Muslim my thoughts allow me to think different because my Lord show me a different way. He clearly describes in “QUARN” (The Holly Book) that our last day (the day of judgment) will be effected by earthling works. So we are on Earth for spreading not any thing else but peace.
Second point is of measurement of good and bad habits. As we know we are human being and everyone is not perfect but we can desire to be the good so the best way is always appriciate good no matter where it comes from always desire to learn new and good. For example I learnt deciplin from Ant! Yes because They never disterb there line when they start their journey. And always try to get Ride of negativity, it’s only destroye your soul.
Third point is how could we get ride of from the negativities. As we know we are blessed creature from all creatures on the Earth Allah blessed us with so many qualities and one of them is “Bearness” “patient” and “Calm” these three could help us alot to build us new.
People says sometimes it’s hard to be patient or to bear something i will say about it that we should start it from little things. And believe that the reward of patient will never go to lurch.